what happen?

what happen?? thought you were never going to fall in love again,  given up on this idea they call love and relationship huh?, all men or women are all scums and deceitful, cant trust'em lol!!!!!!!...every had a period in your life when you felt that way. a relationship that affected your livelihood so much, it made you ramble like a senile possessed elderly not getting his medication.  so devastating the news  it provoked you to completely lost all faith in relationship or stop any pursuit,  interested in a new relationship or finding something with any one. im pretty sure it probably happen to all of us once in our life.  so what happen??? must've ran into that spellbounding person that got you pretzel up and stumbling . yea that happens when you run into that right person. funny thing is, the least place to expect to find love right? its amazing and just take a matter of time before you tell yourself again how lucky you are or that you find the other pair of the glove that fit your hand perfectly. so never give up or hold any doubts because there always that special someone for you just a matter of when...just make sure you dont run into that person while your in a relationship because itll get ugly lol!!
i guess for myself building up a wall and excluding people based on my past relationship was wrong and unfair to anyone. everyone different in there own unique way and shouldnt be automatically outcast and judge based on the past

fashionably painful

i remember hearing and reading article about the effects on the body, due to high heels and how excruciating it sounded. however , i seen many times at work, occasion at the bar/club and  everywhere else i could possible think of, most of the females i encounter wears high heels and frankly looks really sexy wearing it. i honestly believe the one accessory that can change the whole sexiness appeal would be those high heels. it doesnt matter what profession,  a teacher, desk clerk, waittress,librarian. stripper regardless its sexy and attracting. so if you dont have any or oppose of wearing them or believe its unlady-like then your missing out. do yourself a favor, go out and get you a pair, and if you already have millions add another new one to the collection. you might just be missing out, and it not like your wearing them every second of the day. i would love to hear  comments from  any blogger or interested person  on there take until next time

  

timeless

timeless.....moments like these should remind us how  irreplaceable that special someone has influence and impacted your life. you might  want to  take that  extra minute and whisper gently in her ear, how much your madly in love with her. unquestionably, those magical words is like your own personal love potion . it shouldnt matter if your in the infant stages of your newfound relationship or youve celebrated your 10th anniversary with that special person. those keywords, "i love you so much" will resonant and echo throughout eternity until you met again. women need that reassurance... honestly, they deserve it, there was a reason why we fell in love with them to begin with and those feeling shouldnt gradually dissipate over time.  if you take that for granted then she might feel left out and neglected...(not good) and trust me if you dont reassure her someone else will, sad but true . us man and women think completely different when it comes to this subject heck us guys most time cant even remember anniversary days lol!!!! thats a complete nono and if you dont like sleeping on the couch you better commit that date to your memory :)  remember,dont take it for granted because if you lose that person or shes become withdrawn or numb from the distant it might be dificult to recover. so cherish and embrace those timeless moments. 

 

UNDERSTANDING

1+1=45?? huh?? i know i cant be the only one running into this confusion equation that in a nut shell kind of defines my understanding of my current  relationship..how many times have you  argued, disagreed, or not understood, just because the perspective of your partner isnt sinking in and what could be completely diffuse in a matter of seconds escalated into a fullfledge battle where both parties are losing?? man!!!! very frustrating, but is it a bad thing? can it ruin a relationship? can it be amended?
i would love to hear from fellow bloggers about there experience and funny stories that gives you the 1+1=45?? huh??

well ill start of with mines......i had a conversation on the phone not to long ago about a "guy friend" she added onto her friends list on facebook..(yea the dreaded relationshiip killer lol just playing) anyways very casual conversation or you  could say "probing"  :) about how you know this person? where did you meet? what caught me off-guard was the fact that she came off somewhat agitated, and frustrated....i absolutely dont know why, i recall my tone and mannerism was pretty neutral and non aggressive and was asking more along the lines of curiousity rather than suspicion.
she responded by telling me with a (agitated) tone that it was some guy added her and that she accepted. she also used my friend as an example saying that "your friends who dont know me requested me which is weird".....so that kind of made sense and everything went back to normal....until

a week or two later they talked about kicking it, and that freaking pissed me off, what the hell?? how the f@%& are you talking about these so casually when you told me in the inital conversation that it was just some random guy?!?!?! 1+1=45 right?, so in her defense, she thought she mention that she new him from an aquaintance she met earlier.  okayyy! well thats fine!!! why in the heck wasent it disclose when i asked earlier?? and that my friends is the "misunderstanding, arguement, disagreement" that inspire me to write and maybe get some feedback or personal stories from past,present relationship that gives you  the 1+1=45....

i sometimes wonder if the reason she so-called "forgotten" was more of the fact that it was really nothing or if she was to tell me itll blow shit out of porportion and she possibly felt the need to shelter the additional information to spare my feelings. it kind of reminds me of a co-worker (opposite sex or not) that is cool and become friends through facebook. harmless right, so any insight or opinion would be awesome. im really new to this blog stuff and its really cool...tell next time